Business overwhelm and comparison-itis…oh you know… that feeling that you get when you see all these people doing all the things in business that you think that you should be doing, and you feel light years behind everybody.
What’s the secret to eliminating it?
I’ll show you in a minute but first I’ll let you in on a little secret.
I sometimes feel the exact same way!
I see all of these people doing all of these things and I’m like…
✓I need to do more FB lives
✓I should be doing more instagram posts
✓I should be recruiting faster
It all makes you feel terrible and a little bit behind, right?
In this episode of Tanya Aliza TV, I want to show you how to eliminate this, make your life easier, and get you the results YOU are specifically looking for that are going to serve YOUR goals.
A Great Way To Eliminate Business Overwhelm and Comparison-itis – Episode 194
With every Episode of Tanya Aliza TV, I like to empower you with a POWERFUL free resource that you can implement right away and create results with fast in your business.
Since we’re talking about eliminating business overwhelm, I’m giving you My Perfect Day Map & Planner.
It’s got the exact exercises I learned from Tony Robbins to help you eliminate overwhelm and compare-itis in your world and in your business.
You can download it by clicking on the yellow button above.
Business Overwhelm – Get the right perspective
Okay, so there’s one thing I absolutely LOVE doing every day…listening & learning from podcasts.
One of my favorite podcasts that I like listening to is Rick Mulready’s podcast.
His podcast is called The Art of Online Business.
I’m going to link to it in the show notes if you don’t know what I’m talking about cause if you’re building an online business, it’s a great podcast to listen to.
He did an Episode that I loved and I want to share with you because It helped me so much.
So in his podcast he was interviewing a gentleman by the name of Mel Abraham.
Mel was coming on the podcast to share his story, and he said something very PROFOUND.
He said, “I want you to think about how you define success, life and business success, because everybody has a different definition of what success means.”
Now this put everything into perspective for me and helped me eliminate the feeling that I got when I was looking at everybody else doing all of these things that I thought I should be doing in my business.
Business Overwhelm – Have a clear vision of what success means to you
If you have a clear vision of what success means to you, then you have a clear path rather than looking at what everybody else is doing and comparing yourself to what it is that they’re doing or the life that they live.
So I want you to get a piece of paper out right now and ask yourself this question, “What does success mean to me in my business?”
And then I want you to take it a step further and ask yourself, “What does success in life mean to me?
What are some of the things that you will have the ability to do when you reach that point of success?”
Once you have that vision of what success is to you, you can clearly define your journey.
And if you can clearly define your journey, when you get there, you know that you have accomplished what it is that your vision was set out to do.
So it’s not about what other people are doing because what other people are doing may not match your definition of success.
An exercise to help eliminate business overwhelm
Now… I want to help you even further with this with an exercise that will change your world, at least it has for me.
I want to give you my perfect day map.
This is something that I give out to my very high paying coaching clients, and I want to give it to you for free because I think it will really, really help you.
And why is this Perfect Day Map so valuable that I only give it to paying clients?
Back in 2011 I did an exercise with Tony Robbins.
Tony Robbins had a course called ‘Time of Your Life’ and it was a time management course.
And one of the exercises that he got us to do in the course was to map out what our perfect day looked like.
So using all five senses from the minute you open your eyes in the morning to the minute you close your eyes, and you go to sleep for that evening, what does your perfect day look like?
I was absolutely blown away by this exercise.
After that when something came up in my life or my business, if it matched and fit in to helping me to achieve my perfect day, then I would do it.
But if something came up where it didn’t match or help me to accomplish what my perfect day looked like as far as time and commitments, I would say no to it.
This was a life changing activity for me.
So make sure you download My Perfect Day Map & Planner. I know it will absolutely change your life.
Business Overwhelm – Putting the perfect day map in action
Here’s an example of what this exercise on the Perfect day Map will help you do.
Let’s say you see somebody out there doing videos or Facebook Lives every single day… and you’re thinking that’s just going to match what you want your perfect day to look like, then you just aren’t going to do it.
An example for me is I get asked to speak and train at a lot of events that go on all over the world.
And sometimes that event will match my perfect day, and sometimes it won’t.
So if something comes up, and it doesn’t match my perfect day, I’m going to say, ‘I’m really sorry I can’t commit to that, and I can’t put it on my schedule.’
If traveling and speaking on stages all over the world and being away from home all the time is your definition of success, then maybe that might fit your world.
But for me, my definition of success is a lot different, and my perfect day is chilling out at home, hanging out with quality friends and my dog.
I’ve done enough traveling in my day.
That will help you define what success means to you and help you to figure out what you should be doing versus what you can actually say no to.
Business Overwhelm – In Closing
Okay, I think you get the idea right?
Now go download My Perfect Day Map & Planner, print it out, and then comment below and let me know what your perfect day looks like. I’d love to hear about it!
You can download it by clicking on the yellow button below 👇
Check out the resources in the show notes below for even more amazing resources that go with this episode.
Resources Mentioned & More That Will Help Rock Your Biz
Social Marketing & Recruiting Bootcamp – Learn More
This is a free training I’m doing with my good friends John & Nadya Melton and were showing you How We Use 1 Simple Facebook Group To Sell & Recruit New Teammates Like Clockwork In 3 Easy Steps.
If you want to be a great leader and get better at RECRUITING new teammates in a way that duplicates…this training is for you!
Rick Mulready’s Podcast – Learn More Here
The Miracle Morning For Network Marketers (Book) – Learn More
This is one of my favorite series of books. I happen to be featured in this book because of my crazy liking for my miracle morning routine and how it’s totally helped me and my business. If you’re trying to get a more solid routine down that you can follow to create more success in your business… this is a great book to read.
Eat That Frog (Book) – Learn More
I read this book back in 2013 and it was such a great book that helped me get out of procrastination mode… you know the mode, the mode that allows you to run on ‘Oh I’ll get it done tomorrow’! It truly helped me to break through and get the most important activities done first, without procrastination. If you have a busy life and you want to focus on ONLY the things that create the more contribution to your bottom line, this is a much read!
The B-L.A.B. – Come Join Us Here
AKA Build Like A Boss, The B-LAB is Tanya Aliza’s FREE Facebook Mastermind group full of awesome Networkers and Entrepreneurs that are all on a mission to grow their businesses Faster and easier with Online Strategies for prospecting, recruiting and sales. We do themed days of the week, we hold each other accountable and we lift each other up! Come introduce yourself and your business.
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